The start of the feelings of failure come from the earliest days. Our parents tell us what to do, they tell us what not to do. Every time we want to do something and they say, "Don't," we feel we can't, we don't know how.
If we don't want to something and they say, "Do," again we feel we don't know. All the "doing" and "don'ting" by parents gives us the feeling that we can't, we don't know, from the first days on. And this continues because it goes on through everyone's life.
Every teacher has it as his or her make-up that we cannot do. So they tell us what to do, and repeat it, and pound it into us, and the continue that negativity that started at infancy. So maybe 99% of us have a feeling of failure that we can't do. We don't know how.
When we look at ourselves as we really are, and discover what we are, we discover that all things are possible unto us, that all intelligence is available to us, that we have a direct line to omniscience, to omnipotence. And the only thing that keeps us from using it are those pre-indoctrinated dictums from our parents and teachers. Do. Don't.
So by discovering ourselves we see how ridiculous it is to hold on to the concept that we cannot. And when we see that everything is possible, methodically those concepts are dropped.
