Self Realization

Giving up identification with the not-Self 
is all that is meant by Self Realization.

A watchful mind

True spirituality is nothing more than to go about your daily affairs with a watchful mind."

                    Secrets for Higher Success, p. 20

Expect only that which you want

A person cannot be happy if he or she has inner anxieties. Anxieties are expecting to happen that which you do not want to happen. Expect only that which you do want. It’s the ego sense of being a separate individual that is the source of all trouble.